Contact Guidelines


  1. Please include the following information in an email to (in 300 words or less)
    • Your name and an expression of your desires
    • The service you would like to book (phone, individual/couples BDSM, individual/couples coaching, etc.)
    • Your desired appointment date, time, and duration after checking my calendar
  2. Once we have confirmed the details via email, I will send you a deposit/payment request from a trusted merchant that uses a secure payment system with end-to-end encryption
    • A deposit of $100/hr is required to book for all BDSM sessions
    • Full payment is required at the time of booking for all coaching and virtual sessions
    • I must receive the deposit/payment within 8 hours of me sending you the request for the appointment to stand *Deposits that are not submitted within the allotted time will be deleted from my calendar and we will have to start over*
  3. When I receive notification from the merchant that deposit/payment has been completed, you will be given the address, email, or phone number for your session.


  • Appointments are a shared commitment. The deposits and payments are non-refundable. You may reschedule once and have the deposit or payment apply.
  • All interactions, email or otherwise, are confidential. I take this very seriously. Just as I expect you to respect my privacy, I respect yours. This is extremely important.
  • For in-person sessions, please bring the remaining payment in cash.